Al-Thareeq

Assalamualaikum and Hello! Alhamdulillah, I kind of feel to share my thoughts with you in order to understand our path that we chose, Islam. By the way, the blog which you are reading now is quite roughly in writing, and i made another blog with proper one, also named as Al-Thareeq. Insha Allah, everything I made is only for the sake of our Al-Deen. Thank you for reading. Please click : here.

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Assalamualaikum.

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

Something unusual to me, only for discussing about this topic openly. Probably, because of so much troubles related to ‘Love’ stuffs with my life recently, finally my head quite tired by thinking all over the time due to my inexperiences about this kind of thing.

I thought, may be it will be all right and everything will be happen smoothly by trying to make the people from the opposite sex ( i.e women ), to understand the concept of ‘Love’ based on Al-Quran Al-Karim and the way of Rasulullah salallahu a’laihi wa salam taught us.

But, it seems the situation are going oppositely, simply to put this thing is : ‘confusing and a little bit misconcept’. Astaghfir Allah, please forgive me, O Lord, Most High. I thought I made so many mistakes. Shame of me with the sin which I have done.

But, I do not give up. I keep searching and wondering : ” I just want to ask some sisters for their wisdom about this ‘Love’ stuff. Let us see….”

Subhanallah! Alhamdulillah! Before I start asking some one, I found a ‘thread’ in the forum ( iluvislam.com ) which already answered my question earlier…

I will quote ( rather to say : copy and paste ) all the ‘replies’ posted in the thread. ( NOTE : trust me, i won’t lie to you or visit the forum [ here ] ). Let us see :

Sister 1 ( name : iftitah ) : apakah yang dikatakan kita menyintai seseorang kerana yang Esa?

Sister 2 ( name : wardah ) : Bila hati diserah kpd ALLAH, tiada resah tiada gelisah, bila apa yang diburu hanyalah demi MardhatiLLah, hilang rasa gundah, hidup rasa indah, bila benih cinta disemai dahulu pada YANG ESA, barulah akan menyusul cinta telus sesama hamba..pergilah duka, hapuslah kecewa, kerana bahagia insya’ALLAH akan tiba..di dunia ini dan akhirat sana. Dengan syarat iman dan taqwa,kukuh disemai dan tersemat di jiwa. amal soleh bukti setia, seorang hamba kepada Robbinya…

Sister 3 ( name : kasih ) : wardah.. kasih xpham la mksudnya?? mcm mn nk mncambahkn rsa cinta 2??
kasih da ska kt seseorg,tp tkut trslah lgkah.. kalo bole kasih nk ska dia krana Allah.. jd kasih cba nk lpakan dia.. kasih nk sgt rsa nikmat mnyintai Allah… tp kasih xtau mcm mn..
tlong kasih….

Sister 2 ( name : wardah ) - ( answer for kasih’s ) :cinta sesama manusia itu adalah fitrah kerana memang hawa diciptakan daripada adam dan keduanya saling memerlukan.

ALLAH jadikan adam dan hawa cenderung antara satu sama lain kerana itulah fitrah cinta..
cinta pada lelaki hanye khusus dan istimewa untuk lelaki bernama suami..
andainya kita da saling menyukai dengan seseorang..
tahanlah dulu perasaan tu untuk situasi masih blom bersedia seperti sekarang..
bergantung harapan itu pada ALLAH..
luahkanlah rasa cinta apabila kita dah betol2 bersedia untuk walimah..
barulah banyak pintu2 syaitan tertutup..
sucinya cinta kita kalau di jaga sdemikian rapi krana tiada unsur kelalaian dari cinta ALLAH..
inilah sebenarnya cinta kerana ALLAH..

Wallahua’alam..

Brother 1 ( name : putra ) : terima kasih kepada sahabat yang bertanya dan yang memberikan pandangan dan nasihat…

dikatakan cinta kerana Allah ini, adalah dikhaskan untuk pasangan yang telah mendirikan rumah tangga kerana Allah telah memilih jodoh untukNya..Justeru itu, jika ada pasangan yang mahukan sesuatu hubungan itu diredhai hendaklah ianya bermula dgn alam perkahwinan….pada ketika itu Allah menghalalkan setiap perbuatan yang dilakukan bahkan menambah pahala kelak…

HOW ABOUT YOU? WHAT IS YOUR OPINION?

wallahu taa’la a’lam.

Assalamualaikum.

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

Sometimes, I also thinking about my future. When I call back my mind, thinking how i grew up since i was a kid, I am sighing. Then, when I am surfing internet, I search any news in local newspaper online, I keep sighing.

Alhamdulillah, praise be to Allah subhanahu wa taa’la, I realized my purposes as a human being generally and as a Muslim ( i.e submit whole-heartedly to Allah subhanahu wa taa’la ) specifically, to live in Al-Dunya and for Al-Akhirah.

I look at my childhoold life, grew in so many misunderstanding about Islam. Honestly, I am Malay. Sometimes I have been stressed up to respect the culture more than the way of Islam teaches us. Now, i grow up as a man. I wonder, in such environment where the oldies live in ‘misunderstood’ and children grows up among them will arise in ‘misunderstanding’ soon and later. Au’zubillahi min zalik.

Children born are innocent and already ‘Muslim’.

Ahah! This situation must be correct immediately. But, who going to do it? Of course it is ME ! If I keep sighing by looking all such things happen wrongly, there will be no solution after all. Everything must be started by ME ( individual ).

Back to the topic for this post.I read an article about a Muslim and the education for his children. Click [ here. ]  I really recommend you to read it.

By the way, at this age of mine ( i am still young ), it is possible to plan my future for Islam and of course for the sake of Allah subhanahu wa taala ( concept of Al-Ikhlas ). Let’s keep asking to Allah subhanahu wa taa’la ( making du’a ) for His guidance and Al-Rizk ( nourishment, sustenance, income, good fortune etc ).

Thee do we worship, and Thine aid we seek.

Show us the straight way.

[ Quran, chapter 'Al-Fatihah' : verse 5-6 ]

Assalamualaikum !
Mesej dan pandangan kepada :

1. Lelaki yang masih keliru, dan
2. Wanita yang sememangnya menjadi idaman lelaki bagi
menjadi ‘teman hidup’.

Sila klik di sini.
[ Dinasihatkan membaca dari awal sehingga habis ]
Terima kasih. Salam…